Monday, December 21, 2015

Why Adele Hello has 100 million hits within a few days

It shows how many heartbroken souls there are in the world, to put it bluntly. 

People who haven't found their love, yet tried very hard, are still trying. Some gave up trying.

Good luck to everyone in their journey of love 

Monday, December 14, 2015

Art of Being Charming: chapter 1: How to speak without speaking

Well, I've decided to write a book since I have time on my hands. I will post half of the content on this blog, which will also appear in my book which I will launch in eBook and print as hardcopy to Kinokuniya. Remember me Rhines Teo

The title of my book, is unreleased at the moment, is The Art of Being Lovable. Well for one, I'm an artist. I will write and narrate and publish my book within a span of 3 years from now December 2018. That of which means YOU are also 3 years older from now. I write my book with the much needed maturity and growing experiences will be injected so my readers like yourself may live you life vicariously through my narrative and lessons. My goal to help all persons become better people of the society and make the world a much friendlier space to live our 70 years of life. 

Lessons 1:
How to speak without speaking to your other half- boyfriend or husband.

To speak with your eyes my dear. How soulful are your eyes are how beautiful your life will be. It's certainly not something we are born with, otherwise it will be too common. If it's the art you haven't learnt about, you have to start

Why is this an art? Because 
Somethings needn't need to be said. 
Language is much more emphasized with the eyes moving in the right direction
Avoid fights 
Get your point laser sharp across
To send a subtle message 

Sounds ironic already?

To practice this :
In fact, try to go a day without speaking 
Control your eyes 

Seafood until pregnant

I'm allowed to eat seafood until the day I get pregnant. And stay clear of raw seafood for the next 5-6 years 


Craving satisfied. For now

Friday, December 4, 2015

Fighting with my Soulmate

My stupid soulmate is fighting with me

What to do in this case? I'll update this space again, once Ive solved my issues

Monday, November 23, 2015

Seafood everyday

Sunday, November 22, 2015

Largest Crab in the world

Tuesday, November 17, 2015

Ugly side of human nature

Human nature, the ugly side, is so disgusting to know and see

I used to stop things that I detest and hate and yell and hope it will never happen again

Now, I sit by the pavement, ordinary as can be, and watch humans display their ugly side, like I'm in the cinemas. That way can I truly see who you are on the inside.

I can't change you, but I can choose to have you in my life or not. Or be in your life. I don't have to give in to the dark side of temptations like you. Evil people are not blessed by God. I love being an Angel. And accepting all as they are. If anyone needs help, I'm here, otherwise I'll just enjoy as I learn. Kind of... Interesting and yet...

Humans. Really interesting and intriguing. Life's great even though it sucks, don't you agree my dear readers. We find joy in the weirdest things. By the way have you seen this:

Humans are just so ironic. 

M for Magneto (Hope the next X-Men movie coming out soon)

Saturday, November 14, 2015

Intrigued by life. & Soulmate Expectations

Dear God

I always wondered what kind of soulmate you assigned to be the true love I have. How will he look like? What race? Is he tall or short? Handsome or not? Kind of charming? Hope he is as perfect as I imagine.

He's quite good. Checks all my lists except that I didn't realize it at first. He loves me 

What other have said:
He loves me to bits
I'm very lucky
...and so is he ^_^
He's finally here in my life
Happy for me
Wow he's quite the dream man
Ok looking but fairly perfect otherwise 

Well. He's mine is my in-my-head reply to everyone, which I will tell you here. Ha-ha. ^_-

I'm too happy. He works hard and give me the tai tai life I've always dreamt of. Except I'm kind of adjusting right now, so I'm complaining. Because I'm so not used to it. I think weird because now I have so much free time. I guess I didn't know what came with the glamorous most hankered (disclaimer to 50% of women out there) after tai-tai life. I'm bored and maybe I should do something to kill the boredom like ANYTHING. 

He says that when I have kids, he doesn't want me doing anything at all, just sit around because his baby is inside, no exercising. Sounds like awwww how perfect right? Except it's tooooo perfect. Have you had the feeling like something is too perfect and it feels so weird? Like Singaporeans have too good a life, they still have something they want to complain about, anything! Yes, so my life is like this. From now you'll hear ranting non stop of how good life is , so good it's bad. 

So difficult to make humans happy. How weird our minds work. Maybe if you're in my situation one day, you'll understand.

Good or bad, we find something to be unhappy about. Otherwise we are addicted to unrealistic satisfaction of people's approval (Facebook likes, compliments). It applies to everyone, com'on lets be honest. Who doesn't love to be praised. It's never good to have something too good or too bad, too much or too little as they always say. Always a balance. Like yin and yang. 

One thing we have to admit though, is that once someone has experienced too much of something "good" or more approval, they will keep seeking it and worse, they aim higher. Humans always want to aim higher. Is there always a higher than peak? There is no peak? Is that how we are made? And what is the goal of God then? For generations of humans to evolve much longer than now and perhaps there IS a climax of evolution yet to be achieved. Certainly there is a goal, otherwise why is it that 7 billion of us in this world is made to feel the same way

I'm always learning more about life, every single day. Life still intrigues me. In a funny way 

M for McDonalds 

Thursday, November 5, 2015

Why older people dress more conservatively

New buys for new beginnings

As we get older, it's time to wear more conservatively. Somehow I don't know but I just feel that way. Let me ponder over why such behavior.

1) Dont want as much attention from boys or men anymore. Because their peering eyes are prick to my self respect
2) Not seeking attention as much as I know I can give myself all the attention I need.  
By the way have you heard this awesome song: Love Myself by Hailee Steinfeld
3) it's more matured looking and professional image to project. 
4) dressing like older women as i approach my 30s. Dress like celebrities my age. I can't be dressing like I'm 18 right? I can, but not all the time.

There's fun in every age, you can have fun in anything, all you have to do is make it. Life shouldn't be boring, so shouldn't you. (yohnoyono, 2015)
5) it makes your partner love you more because you're making positive changes to your life .

Stay fun and keep lovin'


Wednesday, October 28, 2015

Drive and Passion for Life

I have so much fire in me

As some close to me once said "it's better to appear not so driven in front of people. Generally people don't like persons who are too "aggressive" ".

The fire in me comes on and off but when it comes on, it's really firey. Time to calm myself down and be happy and remind myself to enjoy life that's given to us by God.

Gods gift of fire to me, I will learn to channel it to accomplish my purpose in life- to do something useful and magnificent that will enhance and impact the lives of our next generation of humans. We are hardly developed yet. 

In every weakness there is a strength. Is it where and how you use it and turn it to become someone useful. Why be born otherwise?

Wednesday, October 21, 2015

How to have a blissful life

Someone say "oh, that baby not beautiful or pretty", I say "i used to be ugly when I was a child. Slowly, with time and patience everything developed and grew more beautiful"

Everything takes time and hard work. If you're willing to, with nurturing, good will and intentions, and give it love, with some luck, you'll look at something really beautiful in many years time 

Wish you the best 


Monday, October 19, 2015

Love You

I'm lucky because I met you. I love you and only you for the rest of my life. Thank you for loving me. You let me know how love feels like, how emotionally enhancing and deeply one can be loved. I'll thrive to be your most understanding and supporting pillar in your life. 

Thank you God and all those who have prayed for me. I wish you too, find your happiness soon. 


Friday, October 9, 2015


Actually I've been comtemplating on this topic quite abit before I wrote here- whether or not I should share with you my secret. Today, I will unearth the mysteries of one of the Universe's best kept secrets: who and when will you meet your soulmate?

Monday, September 21, 2015

Why Singapore has low marriage and birth rates

Life's definitely not a smooth sailing dream

Sounds cliche? The only new thing is that my princess bubble dream has been burst for real.

It's unexpectedly difficult to live with someone. I suppose it boils down to 3 things: patience, personality and giving in.

My personality is quite strong as with most Singapore women I believe. Our education has taught us to fight for our rights, our opinion, and pit us against our opposite sex beloved peers, whom we were supposed to love more than fight. We have been taught that regardless, we are their equal or at times better, but in reality this does not work well and even more often, end up as a disadvantage for the strong modern women. Men have their ego and we will never win. So why did our education train women who are suppose to marry and start up families, how to destroy this fabric of their lives and of society's? It's a balance that is akin to balancing on a thin thread 5 levels from the ground. Yes I blame nurture. Why? Because things could and should have been easier like in the past.

A married women cannot be like this. 

It sucks because I've been taught to be confident, less shy, to fight who whom I will marry. To challenge his authority. My factor #1 largely answers the question toSingapore  low birth and marriage rates and high divorce rates after 10 years of marriage. 


I'm not sure how many people in Singapore I can say have patience. We live in a fast moving city. We learn to be productive , very productive and fast in order to be rich and catch up in life. Similarly , it's normal in our context to expect the same from others or we say they're wasting our time. 

Patience? Not here. It takes a lot to be something that we're not and to change a gravitational norm. Seriously. It's so difficult to be something unlike what you're used to doing and trying to be different from everything around you. 

Giving in 

This boils back to my first point. Character has a direct correlation with giving in. Giving in is an outcome of personal character. Does it make sense to say that a strong character won't give it so easily ? Yes certainly. If we can't even give in to our beloved opposite  sex we so love, how are we going to coexist and stay together. 

All in all, it's not so serious. Ultimately, the differences and factors that affect whether 2 persons can stay together or not, depends on the frequency of disagreements and how intense the fighting is. How happy you feel with the person after fights (which are normal), how you will go about to analyse and solve them well. And are both of you willing to move ahead.

It's difficult to change yourself for someone. It's always better to start younger than later. Easier

As long as your dream is there, no one can rightfully snatch it away from you. Keep looking at your dream and keep focussed, no matter how horrible you feel , make sure you always think for the other person. 

If there is a will there always is a way. 

Believe me

Yours always grateful for reading my blog
Singapore Woman that sometimes think life sucks

Wednesday, September 16, 2015

Online shopping 2

My traveling to see my boyfriend in Europe soon, winter season need some thigh high boots to boot

It's the trend and every woman needs one!

Zoxo love

Thursday, September 10, 2015

Online Shopping

To keep my man as excited (most decent definition) as possible. Why why, am I the best girlfriend or what?

" Don't ya wish your girlfriend was hot like me "

Blow $600 every month for shopping.

Stay trendy my ladies

Singaporean woman

Monday, August 24, 2015

Angmoh vs Singapore Man

Looks like I can't find any more cons for having angmoh boyfriend besides loneliness. 

Having a angmoh boyfriend is perfect! I recommend all Singapore women to find them =D hard to find, but once you found em', you're in luck baby!

100% better than Singaporean men. Kinder, less selfish, less playboy / flirtatious, big, tall, not too thin or muscular,more money, travel freaks, woman have bright future with them 

;) I apologize to all Singapore man reading this. Please forgive me for the sincere comparison. Personal opinion

On the other hand, who agree with me , KEE CHIU!!

Many loves,
Babarella Singapore Old Woman

Friday, August 21, 2015

Government and People

An observant old saying 
In a country where government is rich, the people are poor
In a country where government is poor, the people are rich (can be very rich)"

Thursday, August 13, 2015