Monday, June 2, 2014

What is the type of woman/ girl a Singaporean men want?

Ok this is a little personal

Someone, P, recently said " you're the girl every guy wants to chase". It etched in my mind even though I never asked anything about what it meant after that. Never saw myself that way and maybe I am lucky in almost every dear aspect in life, except my poor love life. I don't know if I should be happy or not. I guess not everyone needs a love life, since health, happiness is more important.

What is the ideal type of girl Singaporean men want to chase, want as their girlfriend (wife I won't say so as I am not married yet at the age.)

1) Pretty/ Beautiful

First on the list, as proved credible by many articles and worldwide surveys on Singapore men is that they are looking for a pretty wife. Tall, short, rich, average men all want this ideally in their woman. Otherwise known as being presentable, neat, of course it helps that you are fashionable, natural beauty without plastic surgery (it is obvious sometimes, just no one mentions), and charismatic in nature.

2) Tall and / or skinny

Due to the nature of Asian built, if you are skinny, you are considered average in the society. As a general note, our Singapore men are mostly quite small built as compared to other parts of the world (but that depends on the type of men you like), skinny is in! Men love a woman weighing between 40-49kg in this region on Asia as a guide. Tall girls are harder to find and you stand a better chance of being their trophy wife if you're tall. Man love tall women with long skinny legs as heard from many of my friends

3)  Someone who listens. Singaporean men love to talk so to date one, be prepare to listen to their work woes, be their support and be there for them

4) Someone who cares. They are busy people, and men love someone who is patient, someone who cares about them, and not just for their money. Singaporean men are largely overtly concerned with their expenses and money  as with their careers due to the high cost of living in our state

5) No Princess-y behavior. Ok this is one point my friend does not yet know, I am brought up as a pink princess and will always have a little tantrum as usual. That's why local men love foreign ladies as most of them are here to work from bottom and do not feel the same sense of entitlement as us Singaporean women born with a silver spoon and get everything we ask for. To be with your Singaporean men, we learn to wait, to not expect.

Being "the girl every men want to chase" has its benefits and cons. It also means we have tons of options in our love life to choose from and the con is WE CAN ONLY PICK ONE MAN. How unfair is that! I'm joking. Of course, which is the reason why I having a hard time settling down. It may not be the right analogy but it's like having enough money to buy all the types of flavours of dessert available in a shop, when you only have 1 stomach (great this sounds like a common scenario). What I have been doing: I used my money to buy all the dessert in the shop and tried one at a time and it took me many hours. I am full, while most people find that it makes sense to only choose 1 dessert to fill their stomach for the day. People claim I should choose 1 dessert as well, but I always wondered why must I, given the nature of my situation. Nonetheless, having grown up in the same society for the last 20 odd years, I've learntconformity

Your Singapore Girl