Wednesday, January 9, 2013

Zoe Raymond Saga

Sex scandals fronting newspapers are the real scandals of the Singapore media 2012. They are really distractions in our  media from real issues such as the high 4% year on year inflation going on, how eurozone has already gone into recession, how money is printed to solve debts in developed countries, and our money is worth lesser at a faster pace.

But since we Singaporeans are led to be more interested in love scandals and their court cases, so we shall. It started from the unnamed underage 17 year old social escort & misconduct of Shaw Brother's Howard Shaw & 55 successful men to sexual corruption crime of Cecilia Sue & Central Narcotics Bureau (CNB) Director Ng Boon Gay to unethical political conduct of Lawyer and politician Michael Palmer with colleague Laura Ong. Next, Facebook brings the latest online scoop- engagement wreakage involving parties called Alvin & Yuki and Zoe Raymond!

Who the hell are they, right???

In a quick summary, Zoe Raymond Saga is a dramatic love triangle involving 3 main personalities- Alvin (34 years old) the engaged groom-to-be who cheated, Yuki (33 year old)  Malaysian bride-to-be, Zoe Raymond (23 year old) now infamous blogger and blogshop model who was the third party. 

Basically, Yuki created a facebook page which grew from 4k likes to 25k likes in 4 days about a third party who caused the engagement planned 4 months ago to get called off. Yuki wrote 2 articles (translated) in chinese chronicling her perfect love story with Mr Alvin, sweet proposal, having wedding photos taken and invitations already sent out to all family and friends. Meanwhile, Alvin met Zoe when he was the best man for his friends wedding and started to have an affair with hot Zoe. Then Zoe purposely left all evidences of her presence, leaving her clothes in Alvin's car boot, snacks and drinks that Alvin never likes in his car, and used up 10 condoms in 1 month as Yuki counted from Alvin's drawers. All while Alvin was still together with Yuki. Alvin's doctor dad even went to Zoe's office to tell her to let Alvin go, with Zoe brushing them off saying they were just friends!

Zoe Raymond Saga has rallied the whole community of girls (and guys) because we know how it feels to be rejected, to lose someone we love for no reason, to be lied to by your guy, to have something we treasure taken away from us depite our efforts to keep it. Deep down, it really shows even as our Asian culture have been influenced by more open-minded western behavior, faithfulness and monogamy is still very much a esteemed principle in our society.

Opinion about the Zoe Raymond Saga:

Alvin Yang

Oh, give his guy a BREAK because he's just the normal unfaithful guy you find on the streets in Singapore! Its natural to be sexual, isnt it? Give any unfaithful Singaporean man a younger chick who willingly falls onto you and guess he will say no?  If only Yuki realise he is so unthrustworthy earlier! This guy, is a big FAT NO NO. You get 25k Thumbs pointing down for you! Girls, please do not pick a guy like Alvin;  guys, dont be a man without values, love your girl for who she is!

Yuki Ng

We love this dear for her strength to overcome the most unfortunate love obstacle that can happen to anyone. I guess we wish all the best for her because as they say at the end of the tunnel you'll see light. To any normal girl, it is possible to go into serious depression and develop a phobia for guys. She's hurt by the man whom she trusted and loved for many years; girls are vunerable no matter how strong they want to appear. Yuki is courageous enough to expose her personal life and shed light on the behaviors of third parties these days in spite of her sadness!

Just to be fair, evidently, Yuki got her sweet revenge but cant deny she is quite a sly one! She is so persuasive to the extent of managing to convince 25k supporters from both Singapore and Malaysia to sympathsize with her, and elict so much angst from the public to churn out a 171 of forum pages of hatred thrown onto Zoe Raymond, no less! Lets not go to the *already meticulously one-by-one deleted* hate comments on Zoe Raymond's public facebook page.

Zoe Raymond: 

Zoe never thought about the consequences of her actions despite she already a 23 year old adult. She never thought it would hurt someone else so much. I think by now she would have learnt a very precious lesson the hard way thanks to all the netizens out there and never do it again, hopefully!

Zoe's blog was popular because was inspiring to all girls who want to live a life of restuarants, blogshop modelling, hot body, optimism, to be a sincerely cheery girl who lives a life of principles, a nice girl...all these hopes gone. Realised it might all just a facade of the famous Zoe, isnt it? Any sponsors that continue riding on Zoe's infamous image would be giving the message that the value of being unfaithful is ok. A brand that betrays, sabotage.

Addressing the much suggested outcome that she now has got the "fame" she always wanted, I do not think so. If Zoe has always painted a positive, good life, daddy's little expensive girl image on her blog and avoided speaking about her negetive feelings, she must not like this negetive publicity from her behavior. 

To be fair, I must say that Zoe is a survivor and person of persistence. She survived all the CYBERBULLYING. With all the bad publicity, she closed off her blog for several days over Xmas and New year, meticulously deleted one-by-one hundreds of criticisms on her page calling her names, she is back with a smile mask to hide her "inner beauty". Well, and at least Zoe apologized by creating another facebook page before deleting her apologetic posts after receiving hundreds of negetive comments. No matter at least she did... not?

MONEY for the opportunist: make it movie saga of the year and PROFIT!

If you think about it, the script is all written, publicity all done, really, all one needs to do is have capital, buy over Yuki's copyright and find some local actors and make the film! Budget should be small given a simple production focussing on the personality. An aspiring director in singapore should jump on this chance! Call this based on a true story, dramatise it more so than it already is, make touching love scenes and move your audience to tears. 

Learn from money smart Jack Neo, like Ah Boy's to Man style create a part 1 perhaps about the whole saga and blog, and part 2 about Yuki's life a year later. This has large potential to be an inspiring movie touching on an issue commonplace to our society today. Love, cheating, sadness, involving media, 25k online peititions, depression, surviving the obstacle and becoming a stronger person than she ever was, living on with life with a scar she will always have. Part 2, about a future time we all wonder, will she find a new guy amid all these publicity about herself? But firstly, will a ladies heart open up easily yet to another guy just after a traumatic break-up? How long will someone take to recover from a common situation like this...... Its a revenant topic today and at least you know there will be 25k people moviegoers bringing their friends to catch this Saga of the Year!!

Even after one month of heated commenting, there are some crazy ongoing rumours about Ms Third Party Zoe online! Reading the forum can be pretty entertaining; peppered with Singlish, some comments are so ridiculous and honest its funny to read, people are straightforward about about their comments because they all remain anonymous writers. Moving on, this hot topic is likely to die down, but people will always remember a good scandal. Recommended forum topic for very nosy, the bored and of course, the concerned.......

XOXO (for once only, a nosy) Singapore Girl


  1. Yuki is 33. She has hit "the wall". Her sexual market value is declined and she knows it subconsciously, therefore is trying to commit Alvin into marriage because she knows it'll be harder to compete with girls once she's back in the dating market.

    Alvin is 34. A man's dating market value is different from women's--it increases and peaks at his 30s to 40s (as opposed to a woman's which peaks at 27). Alvin knows this, and is proven right because Zoe.

    That's why women tend to lock men down in marriage as early as possible (statistics show average age of men getting married is 25) because that is when he just starts to increase in his DMV(new job, choice of women, solidifying beliefs), but doesn't know that it'll get better yet.

    A lot of people resort to shaming tactics and target the PEOPLE because they don't want to believe what they subconsciously know is true. Look at facts and general patterns in society. Then you'll see.

  2. after some thoughts, i really think what is portrayed online is not what it seems. After following Y’s FB for a while, I can’t help but to feel that right from the beginning, it was already a malicious intention by Y to ruin Z. Putting all the blame on her. Those sentences about condoms and clothes in car, Y didn't mention they belonged to Z, but the way it's written, made us think that way. On 2nd thought, it is clear that Y & A use condoms. I now find it strange that Y had never felt that she needs to take any responsibility for the break-up. If Z was a nobody, no one would care abt her problem. She actually leverage on Z’s popularity and now, raises her own. She is now a “Auntie Agony”. Z’s silence actually speaks more depth about her now. I think it’s time we netizens think again. Y may not be telling the whole truth. That slapping incident, for all you know, it was a setup, Z’s been framed. After reading all her FB posts, I already can tell Y and her sisters are very fierce.

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